According to a study done on, women find men who possess masculine traits, both physically and mentally, more attractive.

This theory is also biologically proven as women tend to go for men that are taller and stronger than them.

This goes to show that it’s not optional but mandatory that you always aim to become a better man. 

When I say better man I don’t just mean from an ethics standpoint, I mean in all aspects of life. So that means physically, mentally and spiritually. 

Understand this, women, your family, your community and society have a high demand for better men in society. Understand also, that men are always held liable for their burning performance or output.

With that being said, the aim should always be to become a better man, not only for your own value and benefit, but for the people around you that you love and care about.


In Genesis 3:19 it said, by the sweat of your brow you shall eat. This applies to both genders but it absolutely applies to men in particular.

This simply means that you must work diligently to get rewarded as such. In other words, you have to put in the work to get the results and rewards you wish to have.

You see us repeat this a lot on the blog, as a man being lazy and unproductive is unacceptable. Understand that we are not only judged on our output by society, but by the Most High himself. 

We were not out here by accident, we all have a purpose that we must fulfil in this life and we have to be diligent at it. Sloth is one of the seven deadly sins for a reason, God despises a lazy man. 

What I’m trying to get in you guys’ head is that you must work, work extremely hard too, like your life depends on it. No days off, no excuses. 


The minute and I repeat, the minute you leave your mother’s womb as a male, you have an ultimate responsibility. 

If you want to become a better man, you must start by understanding that you have big shoes to fill. In those shoes comes responsibility, not just for yourself but for others around you. That includes family, the community and society in general. 

A man rarely gets second chances, so it’s up to you to show that strength, backbone and integrity to always step up to the plate when you are to be responsible. 

The Bible says that we as men are the head of the home, so think about it, how can you claim to be the head of the house if you can’t take responsibility for what goes on inside of it.

To become a better man, you must set rules and boundaries within the confinement of your family and most importantly take responsibility for their shortcomings. Understand that you are the leader, and the weight of the world rests on your shoulders.


Way too often men adopt this victim’s mentality and whinny and excuses first attitude. I’ll be the first to tell you guys, your wife, society, your mom or president Biden do not care about why you couldn’t put food on the table, or pay the bills, or protect the home.

If you want to become a better man, start by growing some balls and stop making excuses for every damn thing. Understand that it’s in your role to provide and protect, so there is to be no days off where this is regarded.

You also have to develop emotional intelligence, not emotional resistance. This is also a lie society feeds us men, that we must have no emotions and to suck it up. This is terrible advice, us men must develop the emotional intelligence to when to ethically express ourselves and when to avoid it.

There is a fine line to cross though, emotional intelligence doesn’t mean overtly or overly emotional. If you want to become a better man you must be in masculine frame at all times, this doesn’t mean to be a robot, but assume your masculine role at all times. 


As you guys already know, over at Redpilltactics, it’s in our best interest to help you guys become the best and most masculine version of yourselves. 

This article is one that directly serves our mission on this platform as it’s loaded with information that you can apply to become a better man.

As I mentioned before, if you’re born with a penis between your legs, there is no excuse, no short cuts or off switches. Understand that you have an obligation to be a masculine and/or better man.

As countless studies show, like this one from fertile women are drawn towards masculine men, as they subliminally desire to pass on these masculine traits down to their future son(s). Hence they opt to mate with masculine men

This should have more than convinced you to strive to become a better man, so with all that being said we went ahead and compiled a list to help you become just that.


1.Hit The Gym

If you ask any individual to describe a masculine man, I guarantee you they will all say similar things. Stuff like tall, bearded, has tattoos and jacked to name a few. 

There’s something in that above description that we can all work on no matter financial status, ethnicity or nationality. That something is getting in shape.

As I said countless times on this blog, you can’t become a better man if you are not physically in shape. This doesn’t mean to become a professional bodybuilder or any of that sort. However, if you want to become a better man you need to exercise regularly to build a physique that is not only healthy but aesthetically pleasing.

The main benefit of getting in shape surprisingly isn’t having rock solid abs and a chiseled jawline, though these are great benefits too, but the mental characteristics that come with it.

On a fitness journey you develop many productive traits such as discipline, consistency, resilience, diligence, persistence and mental strength. Which are all characteristics of a better man. 

2.Pray Daily

Fellas, it’s in God’s sovereign will for us to become the best men we can possibly be. What better way to become a better man, than to turn to the man that made you a man in the first place man.(wow that’s a lot of “man”s I said there)

The most life defining and life changing habit you can ever make is turning to the Most High in prayer guys. Trust our Father above, he has all the blueprints to become a better man.

Practice turning to him in daily prayer and ask him to equip you with the relevant tools and skills needed to combat the obstacles and challenges life throws at you.

The best advice I can give you guys as men to become better men, is to incorporate the Most High at all times through prayer.

3.Practice Semen Retention 

There is power in holding on to your seed as man fellas. As I mentioned in a recent blog you are to value your sexual energy. God blessed us as men with the ability to carry life, a life that he has a plan for and a purpose to fulfil in this life. So this is something you definitely shouldn’t be spilling around.

Semen retention can keep you out of a lot of trouble as a man, especially a developing man. Such as early or unwanted pregnancies, sexual immorality, sharing a child with the wrong woman and much much more. 

Semen retention also allows for sexual transmutation, which you can use the energy saved from releasing purposelessly towards leveling yourself up and your purpose. It also saves you a lot of time, which is our most valuable resource, the time spent chasing tail to get a nut off, can now be used towards becoming a better man.

If you want to become a better man fellas, start by mastering your lust. Retaining your seed is the number one way to do just that. Getting out of this lustful mindset helps you think more clearly and thus, be able to ration. Which is ultimately a masculine trait.

4.Practice Leadership 

According to, one of the most attractive traits a man can have is leadership. On a primal level, men lead and women follow, I know you can’t say this in the media nowadays but it’s a biological fact. 

It’s even proven in the Bible that the man is the head of the home like Christ is the head of the church. So in a nutshell, if you want to become a better man, it’s mandatory that you practice leadership.

Start by making decisions for yourself, it doesn’t always have to be the right decision. Getting into the habit of making informed calculated decisions puts you in a mental state of leadership. This learned habit can then be transferred elsewhere.

After making decisions for yourself consistently, you can then start doing this for your peer groups or any team you are involved in. Consciously make the effort to lead your respective group at all times. This makes you a better man, this is positive masculinity.

5.Cut Out Excuses

As I mentioned before in this article, as a man you hardly ever get second chances. You are to meet your output requirements, regardless of how you feel, how the weather is like, your family issues etc.

Nobody cares about whatever reason you can give as to why you couldn’t step up to the plate or fulfil your role as a man. You are required to put up your shots regardless of how you feel. 

Excuses get you nowhere, and as I say all the time, excuses are made by people who are too weak and/or lazy to hold their end. And people who are too weak and/or lazy to hold their end are losers. And losers live an unfulfilling and unabundant life. 

As a man, society has no place for losers and excuse makers. So if you wish to become a better man, cut off those excuses immediately.

6.Take Initiative 

Initiative is something that not just most men, but most people in general avoid. This stems from weakness or lack of courage to take the bull by the horns.

In society today, people often don’t want to make the first move or take the first step. Masculine men however live to take initiative in situations.

Always be the fire starter and the one who initiates everything. So when going on dates, pay for the damn date, pick the place, put your foot down. When with your family, start conversations that interest you. Becoming a better man is all about taking initiative.

7.Invest in yourself

Lastly, if you want to become a better man, you are to invest in yourself. Invest financially, physically, mentally and spiritually into becoming the best version of yourself that you can possibly be.

This is why I stress so much that you guys learn a skill that you can leverage, get in good shape and connect with the most high.

These are all investments with very high returns. If you implement these practices, the only way you can go from there is up, literally. I can’t stress enough how much implementing these strategies have changed my life for the better.

If you want to become a better man, you are required to become a better person in all aspects of your life. This required internal investment on your part. 

So take some time, work on yourself, be selfish for a bit. Invest in yourself so much so you can become a better man, to ultimately give back to your loved ones and society.


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